Anon Ask 2

Anonymous asked: what are some blogs similar to yours that are active

There was this post awhile back where a few blogs were recommended to someone looking for the same thing:

https://rainbowamory.tumblr.com/post/161869314419/i-was-curious-if-you-could-recommend-any-other

Unfortunately, one of the blogs mentioned (siblingromance) is no longer there. Also, shipcestuous blog got deleted but you can find her WordPress blog here: https://shipcestuous2.wordpress.com/

Some of those tumblrs focus on fandom and shipping but those who run the blogs are also supportive of real life consensual incestuous relationships.

Sorry that mine is not that active. There are very few blogs that are active regularly but there are forums out there for those who want to discuss these things more regularly. I’d recommend this one: http://ks2016.forumactif.fr

Regardless of the lack of blogs, you can definitely find others out there who are allies or consider starting a blog yourself as well.

Good luck!

Anon Ask

Anonymous asked: hi, i was wondering if there’s anything wrong with dating your 4th cousin? And how to deal with family reactions?

Hey,

There is nothing inherently wrong about dating or being in love with a relative, as long as it’s fully consensual. In many places in the world, first cousins can marry. In even more places, 2nd cousins, 3rd cousins, 4th cousins, etc can marry.

I’m not the person to ask about more complicated things like advice on how to deal with family reactions. I have made little suggestions before but there are things others would be better suited to help you with.

So I would recommend you visit some of these sites where you can find communities of people that would be more knowledgeable about this topic:

Facebook group for cousin couples or allies: 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/369860813120194/

Community for consanguinamory of all kinds, including cousins:

http://ks2016.forumactif.fr/

I really hope that helps you. 🙂

If you want, you can also check out this post I made where there are links to other information that might be of use:

rainbowamory.tumblr.com/post/174978448635/cousin-love-useful-information-resources