Scholarly papers/research reports and other good resources on consensual incest (consanguinamory)

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Are you one of those people who ask WHY??” when you see someone supporting consensual adult incest? Do not ask that question unless you have the balls to deal with the actual answer. If you’re going to be an anti, at least be an informed anti. Human rights deserves more than two seconds of thought. Two seconds of thought makes for a worthless opinion, because that is what is called a knee-jerk reaction. It’s not an argument, it’s not a thoughtful opinion, it’s a reaction based on whim.

Are you someone who is curious about the facts behind a subject that is often presented in a distorted, dehumanized, dishonest way by popular media and society?

The below is a small list I sent to someone after they asked for a list of articles about consensual incest. I want to expand this list later, but for now, here are some scholarly articles and other well-written pieces and videos you can check out.

The content in these articles/resources might be challenging for some people. I still find some of it challenging on a personal/intellectual level. The important thing is to understand that personal disgust/dislike is not a legitimate reason to deny other people their rights or to pass moral judgement on their lives.

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These materials go beyond cousin couples, but the topics discussed provides a big-picture sense of the issues around consanguinamory, and better illuminates where cousin couples fit into this picture, as well as how the stigmatization of other kinds of consensual adult incest affects the way cousin couples are perceived and treated in society. So even though it may seem off-topic for the usual themes of this blog, it is still connected to the themes in important ways.

Here are the materials:

1. English translated version of the German Ethics Council’s report about incest: https://www.ethikrat.org/fileadmin/Publikationen/Stellungnahmen/englisch/opinion-incest-prohibition.pdf

2. Royal Commission report recommending that incest be legalized (this is an old report but very relevant to the topic). There are 4 or 5 PDF files, one for each part of the report. Once the files are on your computer you can open each one and search for the topic. (Part one has the recommendation in brief. The final part has more detailed argument and conclusion): https://apo.org.au/node/34438?fbclid=IwAR21eYklk6bnooiHL_xuXPgH0OOoyEQyJNgTVEUfhF79ImOxR2byz9TFsIo

3. “The Incest Horrible: Delimiting the Lawrence v. Texas” This is one of my top favorite scholarly articles exploring legality. You can download it through the “download” button here: https://repository.law.umich.edu/mjgl/vol23/iss1/4/#.WXf2pMuhqtE.twitter

4. “Incest is Best: The Problem of a Moral Taboo” by Vera Bergelson is another brilliant one. You can download it here: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3228796

5. Rudolf Mandelbaum’s Social Justice Articles: The guy who wrote these wanted to develop his arguments more and make an updated version. It’s worth reading both versions.

Original article: https://medium.com/rudolf-mandelbaum/incest-is-a-social-justice-issue-9a40f69e9ae5

Updated article: https://medium.com/rudolf-mandelbaum/incest-is-a-social-justice-issue-updated-version-4edbee454413

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Polyamorous Consanguinamory Relationship Q & A

The following is the story of a 26-year-old man who is in a polyamorous marriage with his two 25-year-old female cousins that are twins. As this is anonymous, unlike the stories that are out there in the media I cannot verify this story, so it’s up to you what to think. He is going by the name Jackson here.

Sometimes I come across people online in other websites that seem to be genuine, so I ask them if they can tell their story here.

It’s in the usual interview format where he is answering the questions I asked him.

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Dear black tumblr™,

itscoldinwonderland:

tinsibag:

itscoldinwonderland:

Your anti-whiteness hurts mixed people

Your hatred towards white people makes mixed people self hating

Your jokes about white girls with thin lips/no curves makes black girls and mixed girls with those features feel insecure

You make mixed people and black people who don’t agree with you feel unwelcome in the black community

(by mixed people I mean those with white and black ancestry)

I’m a mixed person of black and white ancestry and while I can’t speak for all mixed people: what you wrote here is ignorant, misguided and frankly, embarrassing. Delete this post and then your entire blog if you genuinely think that black resentment towards whites (who have systematically oppressed and abused them) is at all responsible for my insecurities about my appearance or my status as a person of color.

So anyways, hatred towards white people hurts mixed people of white ancestry, especially white – passing mixed people. Ty, come again.

THANK YOU, itscoldinwonderland. I’ve experienced this same shit from a different racial background… so I know what you’re talking about here.

itscoldinwonderland:

Here’s your reminder that mentally ill people are capable of anything. We can be good-natured, loving, and successful, but we can also be criminal and abusive. Many mental ilnesses cause an increase risk in “bad” or deviant behavior. It is not just those “scary” disorders, but common disorders like depression and anxiety can cause violent behavior if left untreated. The point is, that we are capable of doing bad things, and some of us are even more prone to it, and some of us end up doing those things, but not all of us do. If you demonize all mentally ill people based on the ones who do bad things, you’re ableist. And if you think of mentally ill people as pure good beings, you’re ableist too.

Mentally ill people are people, and like everyone else we are capable of being any way.