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Nicknames: Rain

Star Sign: Scorpio

Height: 5′0

Time: 7:50 pm

Last thing I Googled: Rey (from Star Wars) to check spelling of her name

Fave Music Artist: The Beatles, The Killers (and more of classic and modern rock), SHINee (and other K-pop, selectively)

Songs Stuck In My Head:

Give Me a Sign by Breaking Benjamin, and Ace of Hearts by Zella Day (ehehehehe. Luke/Han slash? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9m0DaiVPjLU)

Last Movie I Watched: Rogue One: A Star Wars Story 😀 😀 😀

Last TV Show I watched: Borgia

What I’m Wearing Right Now: Bedtime clothes

When I Created This Blog: About 3 years ago.

Kind Of Stuff I Post: Blogs about queer topics and educational or research stuff about cousin/cousin romantic relationships. Anti-stigma focus.

Do I Have Any Other Blogs: Not at the moment but I intend to make one, about writing and fantasy stories (literary analysis)

Do I Get Asks Regularly: No 🙂 Would like some more.

Why Did I Choose My URL: It was inspired by the word ‘consanguinamory’ coined by @fullmarriageequality  I wanted a name that had an umbrella meaning, for the twin topics of my blog – something that could apply to both sides, and was inclusive

Hogwarts House: Gryffindor or Ravenclaw… Or Slytherin. Can’t decide.I kind of want to confuse the sorting hat. ^_^

Pokemon Team: —-(I don’t know Pokemon.. unfortunately never got to watch it as a kid)

Fave Color: Black and red

Average Hours Of Sleep: 8-11 Depending on the day

Lucky Number: 13

Favorite Characters: Lelouch Lamperouge (from Code Geass – absolute favourite of all time), Aragorn (LOTR), Cassian (from Rogue One), Anakin Skywalker (Star Wars), Yurippe (from Angel Beats), Setsuna F. Seiei (from Gundam 00), Tieria Erde (from Gundam 00), Ryner Lute (Legend of the Legendary Heroes), Tyrion Lannister (Game of Thrones), Peter and Edmund Pevensie (Narnia). There are so many I love, but these are the ones I identify with, in a deeply personal way.

Number Of Blankets I Sleep With: 1

Dream Job: Editor for trade fiction at a publishing house *dreamy sigh* (in this life)… in an alternate world, my ideal would be being a soldier/sorcerer (independent) who knows how to sword fight. It wouldn’t be a job but a way of life.

How Many People Am I Following: 74

Tag: @miyamashi @tatooineknights @fyeahlukeandleia @fuckyeahbiguys @mrlonelybrother @princess-squishy @brandonrandy @interstellar-time @lucrezia-lannister @its-familylove-blr @brandon-thedestroyer @general-sleepy @interstellar-time

HoneyLilac

I wanted to post this some other time but since I’m not on here anymore, I wanted to just leave it on my blog for anyone who is interested. This is my youtube channel, where I make fan videos for films or shows I love. 🙂 It’s not directly related to my blog here but it does have some slash. ^_^ This is another way to contact me if you want. -rainbowamory

HoneyLilac

Contact

Hey, I just want to thank the people that have followed recently. But to be honest, a lot of things are going on in my life due to which I am not blogging anymore. So if there are no more updates please don’t be surprised. If you ever want to talk or recommend a film or info to add to the list of related topics for this blog, you can contact me here: muffinsandblades@hotmail.com

I rarely log on here now so if I don’t reply to something you’ve written, this is why. If you need to talk to me, please send me a message to the e-mail above.

Thank you ❤

-rainbowamory

Short Update

thefinalmanifesto:

rainbowamory:

I’m sorry I haven’t been updating anything on this page lately. It’s just that I’ve been working through some dysphoria times… I’m seriously considering transitioning from female to male so it’s been on my mind a lot lately and I just need space. Thank you for following me. And I’ll get back when I’m ready again. I love these causes and I do want to continue sharing relevant info here. ^^ Thanks ❤

-rainbowamory

Sending my support! ❤

Thank you ❤ I’m in a really weird space right now. Just anxious and incredibly happy at the same time to finally know what I want. 🙂 I’ve known I was trans since I was 20. Before that it was a million inarticulate hints & feelings, which I could finally fully understand now. It’s only now, at 25, that I feel I have the mental readiness to go for this.

Short Update

I’m sorry I haven’t been updating anything on this page lately. It’s just that I’ve been working through some dysphoria times… I’m seriously considering transitioning from female to male so it’s been on my mind a lot lately and I just need space. Thank you for following me. And I’ll get back when I’m ready again. I love these causes and I do want to continue sharing relevant info here. ^^ Thanks ❤

-rainbowamory

Followers POLLS

rainbowamory:

Hi, just wanted to say THANK YOU new followers for following me 🙂 If you haven’t yet voted in the polls, I’d really appreciate it if you take a moment to throw in your vote for both, or which ever one applies to you. You can find them along the sidebar of the main page.

The polls are just for the sake of interest, and also so I can better decide what kind of stuff to put on the blog.

Also, questions or submissions related to the theme of my blog are welcome anytime!!

Thanks :3

Why “So Who’s the Boy and Who’s the Girl?” Isn’t Offensive To Me

⬆-This video caught my eye cause I feel the same way. Actually if someone assumes there is no guy in my relationship that actually offends me more, because even though my relationship is outwardly lesbian, I don’t identify as a woman.

I think she explains the topic very well from several angles, but she left out just one thing: one reason this question may NOT be offensive to some people is because one of them identifies as genderqueer or trans. So although it may appear to be a regular lesbian relationship (woman + woman) on the surface (due to one of them not having transitioned yet or having feminine features), beneath that the couple may see each other very differently than how the world sees them (as a boy and a girl, boi + girl, genderqueer + cis, etc). And in that sense, they may be closer to feeling like or behaving like a straight couple than a gay one – even though outwardly they are seen as the same sex.

I know exactly how that feels. And there’s nothing wrong with it 🙂 I respect the fact that my girlfriend is a lesbian and she respects the fact that I don’t identify as a woman.